Avoiding negativity

   I would like to share a few tips on how to deal with negative people. Some people just dont now what to do with themselves so they find it fun to make trouble for other people, or some find it fun to make other people's feelings hurt. I have experience with both types, so let me educate you with some techniques that I use.

  First of all, keep in mind that you are 100% better than them, this will make you confident when they say negative things about you. Now, when someone  says something mean about you  that is actually true, you just have to laugh. This will anger them, because they were trying to hurt you but it turned out that you thought it was funny. Another way to deal with them is to smile in their face and walk away.  If they say something that is false about you, you thank them and walk away. Why thank them? Because YOU know that it isn't true, so why care. "Let people think what they want to think"

  Someone says " You know that person said this about you" Your first move isn't go and ask them why they did it, no not at all. You go straight ahead and remove them from your life. When you see them you just look straight through them as if they are invisible and none existent. Next you go and tell everyone that what they said isn't true, or if it is true then...you...Dont do anything about it, and just leave those people to be. Once you remove the person from your life,  their name or a mention of them will seem like nothing to you.

  People who dont like you and you dont like them, but they pretend they are your friend and talk junk about you behind your back. Oohhh, I just love those ppl. I have that person I see everyday. And she is just the funnest.  Now when you see her, let us hope someone is next to her. You greet the other person with a nice and sweet smile and then you turn to great the not nice person, and your smile immediately disappears and you give your best " I'm  tough and I dont like you " face.( I love doing to ppl, it makes them go blank.) Next when the bad person  says something nice to you like a compliment or something you just smile, without thanking her/him. This will show that you don't care about how they think about you. Final thing I do is tell them that They are not a good person and I really dont like them, and they should stop doing what they do behind my back. Give them a sweet smile, and stand with my friends and show them just how litt I am.
 *sigh*

    I hope I somehow helped you with stuff. Good luck with kicking the negativity out of your life .


Aayisha
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